What do you mean, “He throws like a girl?”

I constantly heard this phrase growing up, ironically thrown around between boys as a taunt to get under the other’s skin. 

I never really thought much of it and honestly forgot about it until today, when I saw my neighbor try and throw a ball to his dog. 

Whaaa?  I thought.

Then he threw it again. (Not a fluke) –  This guy has no clue how to throw a ball!

That’s when the phrase came back to me and for the first time since I was a child, and it didn’t make any sense. 

I asked my girlfriend who played softball through college and then was paid to umpire for a few years after that, “Why do people say someone throws like a girl? In reality he throws like someone who just plain can’t throw. What do girls have to do with it?

Most of what I got in response was a Yeah and a duh.  (Probably not in that order)

Of course girls can throw, just like boys. Have you ever seen women play fast-pitch on ESPN? 

They can definitely throw!